Jennifer -
Support information and videos for tools we discussed. I will send you handouts later when I get a chance.
The first 2 videos are from Lessons from my Taming Tantrum on-line Course. I found the clips that were about topics we have been discussing.
Hopefully this is helpful!
New Video - September 16, 2021
Pitfalls when setting limits
Including:
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Repeating,
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Reminding
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Lecturing
Rephrasing or Enforceable Statements
Focusing on what we can control is where we put our energy and our limits.
Intentional Parenting
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Types of Consequences
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Strategies for when you do not know what to do!
Love and Logic CEO - Dr. Jim Fay Podcast - Dealing with defiant behaviors
(Added September 13, 2021)
Charles Fay - Enforceable Statements - Garbage or Gold?
What can you really control? What can you really enforce?
When we add threats, bribes, conditions, reminders - that means your statement was not enforceable.
Are you statements - gold or garbage?
